Forgive me if it appears that my blogs always sound like I use them as a platform to moan about something. You have to look at the bigger picture and understand that anything I mention in my blogs is ultimately for the greater good. Therefore, sometimes I just have to point out consistently, issues that don’t seem to go away. They do say that if you throw enough mud at a wall, eventually some of it will stick. I really do hope that this is the case
Cancellations, it has to be said, are the bane of my life. I feel sure that with a little more empathy from you, the punters, half of the cancellations could be avoided. I have said it many times before that our Oriental escort girls work to a diary system to maximize their daily earning potential. Who can blame them with the extortionate amount of money that landlords charge them, purely because these said landlords know what type of work the girls do and hence can charge them well over the odds.
Just to give you an example, a punter made a booking a few weeks ago for 5pm in the evening. At 4;30pm I get a text from him saying that he had been overwhelmed with a tide of guilt about what he was doing and had to cancel. The context in which he told me this implied, I think, for me to congratulate him for taking the moral higher ground. And this from a guy who had used our services many times before!!! I am usually quite a calm person, but this made me see red. I asked him why he didn’t feel guilty about wasting mine and the girl’s time. As expected, I got no response from him and thank heavens, I have not heard from him since.
In a nutshell, please guys, when you are making a booking, please do so with confidence that you will be able to fulfill your obligations. Take into account things like parking, heavy traffic, changeable work commitments etc. Obviously there will be occasions when cancellations are unavoidable, but please give the girls some thought and respect and make these occasions few and far between.
Other side of the coin
I am happy to report that the majority of my client-base are very reliable and go the extra mile to ensure that a booking is successful. I will give you an example of the other side of the coin, whereby the thoughtfulness of a prospective customer restored my faith in human nature. The aforementioned customer was sensible enough to inform me that he was black and also had a walking stick. He told me about the walking stick as he didn’t want the girl to be left wondering why it would take so long for him to reach her flat after being buzzed-in. My kind of customer!!! It is always good to mention your ethnicity, especially if you are black. You know full well that Asian escorts working in London are not racist. It’s just a question of physiology. I don’t think I need to point out that you cannot fit a square peg into a round hole, if you get my drift.
Well, I think that sums things up nicely and I sincerely hope that you will all take on board my rantings about cancellations. Also lateness and being early are things that myself and the girls would be very grateful if you can avoid. Lateness has it’s obvious implications but being early can be just as disruptive to an escorts schedule. The girls do not sit on the sofa all day dressed in the attire in which you would expect to be greeted at the beginning of your date. They go shopping, they sleep, they shower and wash their hair, they have friends around to visit. Yes, just like you and me, they do have a life outside of their chosen profession. Henceforth, don’t get the hump if a young lady cannot see you if you only give her five minutes. Please allow 20-30 minutes for her to prepare and make herself look nice for you. Thanks for reading this blog (moan), Ben - Asian Options.